Parenting
Keeping a heritage language alive at home takes patience, play and a lot of bedtime stories.
Many parents hope their children will speak the language of their grandparents. Many also discover how quickly the language of school and friends takes over.
Families who succeed tend to make the heritage language part of pleasure rather than obligation: songs in the car, stories at bedtime, cartoons on weekends, calls with relatives who only speak that language.
Consistency matters more than perfection. A child who hears a language every day, even imperfectly, keeps a door open that is much harder to reopen later.
And when children answer in the other language, parents say, the answer is not frustration but persistence. Understanding often runs ahead of speaking — and one day, unexpectedly, the words come back.






